A man has publicly opened up in an online forum about how his ex-girlfriend wants him back after a two-month breakup.
The man, identified as Chris Chyt, claimed that everything was going fine until his ex-girlfriend left him for another man.
She went ahead and had an affair with her new catch, but she now wants them to reconcile.
The man in question sought advice from other men on how to handle the situation.
“My ex-girlfriend wants me back after a two-month breakup. She slept with someone else at the time,” he said.
“I don’t know if I want her back. What would you say to that?”
The revelation elicited strong emotions, with many of the men asking him to forget the girl.
Here are some of the reactions:
One of the commenters opined: “Typical behavior.” She asked for a break to check her options, and when the other guy failed to meet her expectations, she returned to her safe option, which she does not respect. If you value yourself and want to keep your self-respect and dignity, move on. Reject her, build yourself up, and have confidence. You will find a better option.”
Declan Mcnally: “Don’t get back together with her. I wish I had followed my own advice a year ago; I learned the hard way. Value yourself enough to move on and never look back! As Maya Angelou said, “When someone shows you who they are for the first time, you need to believe them.”
Joshua Hananiya: “If she left you before, she can do it again. She probably wants you back not because she loves you but because she failed to replace you.”
John Smith: “Block her number. Lose that number. Don’t think about her; don’t talk about her. Don’t even visit her pages on her different social media platforms. I mean, only if you really care about your self-respect.”
Dward K: “You’ll always be reminded that the only reason she came back is because the only guy saw the nonsensical in her behaviour, and she came back to you as a safety net for her. There are thousands of women out here sharing similar traits; you’ll be fine.”
Another man opined: If your girl cheats on you, then the answer is simple: quickly break up with her before it’s too late. We all know, “Cheating is a choice, not a mistake.” I’m sure you’ll find someone better than your ex. I’m telling this for your good.
“No relationship is perfect; we’ve only read a tiny fraction of one side. Some women are just out there looking for the next bigger and better deal; they’re shallow and heartless.” said another commentor.
Another chimed in: “I don’t know anything about her or you, but if you know that you did nothing to give her a good reason to leave you, then tell her she made her bed and she can lay in it. An ex is an ex for a reason.”
“Don’t take her back! Block her number and do the chord-cutting ritual. You will find someone who will respect you better! You deserve better.” went another piece of advice.
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Donnie J: This is the right option! You can’t be with someone who has made you a second choice. If you do, you run the risk of it happening again. If you do choose to, everything that comes is all on you, even if she does it again. Best of luck.
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